The Hidden Weight of Doing It All—And How to Begin Releasing It
- Apr 13
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April 13, 2025 | Blog - 2 min read
“Rest is not a reward. It’s a requirement.” — Rise Through Becoming
We live in a world that praises multitasking, pushing through, and being “on” all the time. But behind the scenes, many women are exhausted, overwhelmed, and wondering why they feel off—gaining weight, struggling to sleep, and just trying to hold it all together.
Here’s the truth: there’s nothing wrong with you. What’s wrong is the expectation that you can carry everything without rest.
Your Body’s Stress Response
Chronic stress impacts your metabolism, hormones, and energy. It’s not about willpower—it’s about biology. When your nervous system is overwhelmed, your body shifts into survival mode:
Cortisol rises, increasing fat storage (especially in the belly)
Blood sugar crashes (a.k.a. reactive hypoglycemia) trigger cravings and fatigue
Sleep becomes disrupted, making everything harder
If you’ve ever felt shaky, drained after eating, or like you need caffeine just to function—you’re not alone. This is your body calling for support, not discipline.
It's Not Just About Food
According to the CDC, over 40% of women in the U.S. live with obesity, but this isn’t just about what’s on your plate. It’s about what’s missing: rest, emotional support, and space to care for yourself.
Ask yourself: Have I eaten today? Had water? Paused to breathe? If not, this might be your nudge.
A Gentle Reset
Try this simple nervous system reset:
Hand on heart, hand on belly
Inhale for 4 counts
Exhale for 6 counts
Repeat for 2 minutes
You deserve to feel well—not just survive. What women need isn’t more pressure. It’s permission to rest, reconnect, and be.
— Sandra




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